Yes, I think you're correct about where JM is coming from. It still doesn't change how hurtful his comments are, especially to people who understand and identify with Spike so strongly. And he, of course, has every right to his opinion, but I think it's incredibly foolish for him to personally insult a bunch of people who just paid to see him because they love the character so much. And the way he keeps lecturing us about our sex lives? I'm sorry, but that is just condescending and sexist and irritating, and I have every right to be annoyed by it. He has the right to say it, and I have the right to be pissed off in response.

Yes, I would love to hear some positive, thoughtful, and brief questions for JM at cons. Plus, anything is better than "You're so hot! Can I have a hug!?" and the other typical con questions.