While certainly people get extremely passionate while in the midst of the fight, I don't know. I still have great affection for JM and the Spike fandom. Not so "over" that part. Oh, sure, it's easier to roll eyes... or even smile in nostalgia. It's also easier to giggle at the nutcases. But, I don't know. Where I shipped and where I fangirl squeed I don't "get over." At least not entirely. I still have great affection, and in the right circumstances can still become quite passionate about it (though, I really don't care about his singing one way or the other so :shrug: about JM music.)