Well, everyone moves on (or not) differently and in their own time... like Kita posted yesterday. Some people have one fandom that they love forever, some people have a bunch of fandoms that they love forever, some people move from one fandom to the next and really only care about one thing at a time... It's all fine, everyone's different.

I'm over Spike, but it's cool that you still care. I think I'd look back fondly if it had turned out better. But I pretty much realized that everything I liked about the story, everything that had meaning to me, was an accident that ME never intended and quickly tried to erase as soon as they realized what they'd inadvertently done. So the small bit of emotion I have left toward Buffy fandom is almost entirely bitterness. But mostly, at this point, I just don't care.