Unfortunately the "protection" the net gives makes some people lose all pretense at rationality.

Yup. I just can't imagine rational people saying these kinds of things to each other in real life, but online they lack that boundary. At least on well-run discussion lists, a moderator will step in and stop the personal attacks. On LiveJournal people just say anything.

I know, I just shouldn't let it get to me, but it always does. I'm way too sensitive about these things.

We miss you in NY too! It was so fun to hang out. We definitely have to get together when you visit again.